Soul Mates

How does someone know when they have found their soul mate? What happened when one person loves someone sooooo much and claims to have found their mate and the other person doesn't feel the same way? Maybe they just settle or just realize it better to give in and make everyone (excluding) themselves) happy. Yep. That is probably it. Why worry about it, when that one person who is soooo in love bends over backwards for the other or puts that person on a pedistal?!? Oh well maybe it is some devine intervention from God. Maybe that person is supposed to be in your life so God presents them to you.